I woke up several mornings ago and had a conversation with God about my feelings. I was telling Him about how my husband was making me feel and about how this was unfair and that was unfair and I remembered my resolution for this year: no negative thoughts. I had not gone into a full-blown pity party session but I could have easily arrived at that party if I would have continued down the road of negativity that I was traveling.
Was everything that I was feeling true, yes. Was everything that I was telling God true, yes. But I had to make a choice. Would I continue this negative conversation or would I state the facts and then ask the Lord for help in dealing with them. And in asking for help, I would also speak and think God’s word and turn my negative feelings and thoughts into positive declarations.